The internet is still abuzz from INAM’s shocking expose, Match From a Hot Girl’s Perspective. Here’s Olivia’s suggestion: I honestly don’t mind when someone emails me twice.
However, I did not expect that my dating life would be this difficult. I'm not a huge drinker, so the bar scene has never really been my thing.
Not that there's anything wrong with it, but I'm not into one night stands either.
Even if a guy is attractive, I still won’t respond to these messages.
Read the profile, say something specific, and make a lasting impression But you guys knew that, right? That last point however brings us to perhaps Olivia’s most interesting suggestion, and one I didn’t expect.
Just because someone is hot doesn’t mean I’m going to respond, either.
In fact, most of the best looking guys write pathetic emails.
Because my landlord is really getting tired of that.
Olivia offers a good deal of advice on what a guy (or girl, for that matter) 50 other guys have asked her “how are you”, “any plans for the weekend”, “how is your week going”, so don’t be surprised when I don’t answer if that’s the ENTIRE text of your message.
I don’t dismiss someone based on his looks, because when you get to know someone, you can become more attracted to them.
If someone writes a great, engaging email, but is only average looking, I may still respond.
She says, even if you don’t find yourself as dreamy as the one you’re seeking – write anyway! Appearance is of course important, but it’s not the defining factor.